Easy and Cheap! Freely give the gifts of affection and a cheerful disposition. These gifts do not cost a dime and show your mate that you (still) care. Any kindness and appreciation outside the bedroom can lead to a return of the same under the covers.
Passion Seeker Coupons: This is the gift that gives intimacy and love and you will share in the enjoyment when these coupons are cashed in! Give your mate a coupon for a massage from you or other specific intimate activities. Offer yourself as a bedroom slave for an hour. You get the idea. Be creative or use the pre-made coupons provided in the back of my book Sex Lives of Wives.
Terrific Touches: Use one of the great warming massage oils on the market like BeautiControl’s Therma Del Sol in lavender and trade massage services – just 10 minutes of touch is not only healthy and relaxing but the intimacy often leads to THE ultimate bonding gift to share with your mate.
“Oriental Spice Night” is the theme of this Bedroom Date Night – light a spice scented candle such as Glade’s Scented Oil Candles (Spiced Rose & Vanilla) or burn incense. Obtain/rent the movie The Lover to watch together while giving each other some “Terrific Touches” (discussed above).
Write Your Mate a Bedtime Story: Describe the first time you were together intimately or some other fantastic private event or fantasy romantic story and present it to your mate. Better yet – read it to your mate while cuddled under the covers.
